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Tag Archives: The South
Chapter 66: Mad About the Boy
Everyone one should have one John Ashley in their life. But only one… One is a voyage of youthful self-discovery, more than one is a sign of self-destruction and co-dependency setting you up for an awkward intervention by your friends….. … Continue reading
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Tagged Gay, Sex in the South, The South, University of Virginia, Virginia, Washington and Lee University
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Chapter 64: After The Fall
I’ve had a couple of glasses of wine… I had to…or this chapter would never been written…. If you want to be an honest blogger- or storyteller-the hard part is telling the truth even when it hurts. Or when it … Continue reading
Chapter 63: A Sense of Place
I just got home from home… First of all, you have to understand that home is a complex term for me. It’s more a feeling than a place- or it’s more of a sense of a place…. I just spent … Continue reading
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Tagged Lexington, The South, Virginia, Washington and Lee University
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Chapter 62: Easter Parade
Easter always brings out the bitch in me…. It’s a strange holiday for me… Part of me resents that the whole world- at least in the USA and at my gym- stops for a purely Christian holiday when we should … Continue reading
Chapter 61: Bosom Buddies
My Best Friend had Heart Surgery this week… I don’t like to think of us as old enough to have to face these issues, but I guess we are… And “Best Friend” is a very inclusive, non-exclusive term for me…I … Continue reading
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Tagged Friendship, Southern Gothic, Southern Writers, The South, Virginia
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Chapter 60: Look Away, Dixieland
Let me set the stage for the next few entries…. My college was Washington and Lee University in Lexington, Virginia. At the time I attended school there it was an all-male college. And for those of you with dirty minds, … Continue reading
Chapter 59: All the Sad Young Men
I think I’ve been away from this blog for a while because I’ve been trying not to write this entry…. I didn’t want to write this. I didn’t mean to write this…but I need to write this before I can … Continue reading
Chapter 58: The Wiseman
We’re going to get really heavy Southern Gothic here. Just give me time to get there…. Let me start by saying, after 20 years in a Corporate office, I started working from home a couple of weeks ago. I’m going … Continue reading
Chapter 56: Integration-Part 2: Negroes, Lesbians and Yankees, Oh My!
Once integration happened, it was really no big deal to most of us. Some of our parents, however, never recovered. The South in those days, at least in small towns like ours, was built a lot of unbendable, undefinable, unpublished, … Continue reading
Chapter 55: Integration- Part 1: Or When Sunny Gets Blue
I’ve said it before, growing up in Danville, Virginia in the late 1960’s to early 1970’s was like growing up in South Africa under Apartheid. Brown vs the Board of Education took many years to be fully implemented in the … Continue reading