Author Archives: Scott M

Chapter 25: Queer in the South: My Story, Part 2

Let me start the second part of sharing this journey by pointing out that the story has a happy ending. I like to think I ended up a fairly well-adjusted, successful, happily partnered Gay man. But it’s not something that … Continue reading

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Chapter 24: Queer in the South: My Story, Part 1

I struggled with how to title this post, but I decided to go with the pejorative terminology.  Now is not a time to be delicate or sensitive. I’m just going to lay out the facts.  I’ve been very honest on … Continue reading

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Chapter 23: Football Season in the South

Football season has begun and the South has lost its mind. See Football games are both a metaphor for and a microcosm of Life in the South.  I’ve never really understood all this fuss about football- be it High School, … Continue reading

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Chapter 22: A Few Things I’ve Learned Along the Way

Being born in the South, you are raised with a lot of preconceived notions.  When you are young, you are taught to accept certain things without question. Well, I’m really am glad I’m not young anymore.  I’ve learned too much … Continue reading

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Chapter 21: The Mad Men of Danville

I’ve recently had a revelation.  The concept of ‘”summer jobs” is really a passe concept. Nowadays it seems kids spend the summers going to “camps” to increase their skills and marketability for College as opposed to earning cash for college … Continue reading

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Chapter 20: A Southern Boy’s Reflections on New York on September 11th

This is a repost from Lostinthe21stCentury.com, my other blog, from back in May.  September 11th seemed like a good day to visit it again. New posts for this blog are under construction and coming soon… I am blessed to be … Continue reading

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Chapter 19: The Domestic Goddess

Okay, this one is going to be short and a bit of a rant…. As most of you know, Lou, my Mother, is now in Assisted Living. What goes around has come around… She is famous for having my Father’s … Continue reading

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Chapter 18: Drinking Again

There are three predominant themes to life in the South:  Sex, Religion and Drinking.  I’ve touched on each of these subjects and will do so more on the future. For now, let’s concentrate on drinking. That seems to be the … Continue reading

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Chapter 17: The Gym

I am now a gym rat.  I know several people who read this blog and have known me since childhood have already fainted.  Please pick yourselves up off the floor and work with me… I will readily admit, until I … Continue reading

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Chapter 16: Losing My Religion

I can pinpoint the exact moment when I lost my religion.  Or at least my patience with organized religion. Growing up, we were Social Baptist.  That means we went to Church, like most people did back then, as kind of … Continue reading

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